The Silent Treatment

By Gertrude: Silence speaks louder than words. It is still a form of communication. Is someone in your life giving you the silent treatment? Or are there other relationships you have disconnected. Stopped contact. Silence tells us so much more about that person. The main one being, really showing who they are. Now, that doesn’t read more…

How To Heal A Broken Heart

By Rani: “Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn’t you – all of the expectations, all of the beliefs – and becoming who you are.” So How do you really Heal a Broken Heart? Put yourself first: In any case, this would have ended for read more…

Relationship Intimacy – How To Improve Communication

By Gertrude: The most intimate connection we have in a relationship is our voice. Where we share our thoughts and feelings as well as being listened to. When we talk about communication we often overlook the real skill of listening.  While we also think of our voice as verbalizing what is going on for us. read more…

Fear Of Making The Wrong Choice

By Pascale: The biggest reason people don’t go for what they want is that they’re afraid their dream might be unrealistic, and often because they don’t think that they deserve it: they’re afraid to make the wrong choice.  People frequently ask for a reading because they are looking for help in making important decisions. When read more…

Is Love Enough?

By Gertrude: Can we love one another like Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban, Is Love Enough? In my experience, the answer is NO. What we are being asked to do is to love ourselves equally.  Is there a recipe for love success? Yes there is, although it’s not infallible. The most important ingredient is self read more…

Investing In Love

By Shannon: A full life is great, but when it’s time to include someone else in it, there is a time for review of your life and how the person can fit in or if you both make new plans that suit everyone. This tends to happen slowly not over night and some dysfunction can occur read more…

Do You Listen To Your Head Or Your Heart?

By Ann: Not listening to your heart can lead to regret. Listening to your head can lead to success. Do you follow intuition or rational thought? Cognition vs. emotion, which do you choose? A ship has a wheel and rudder, which both are used to steer where you want to go, and you cannot have read more…

Are You Being Shelved?

By Gertrude: First, let me explain the term shelving in a relationship. The best description is when someone isn’t so hot and cold or back and forth. Generally the person shelving is consistent, in so far as how they treat you. However, what they do is only participate in conversations and dating when it suits read more…

Signs It’s Not Over – Break-ups

By Shannon: Once you’re on your love path, it’s important to follow your heart and not allow the negative thoughts to take over. Often people express happiness and joy to begin with and head over heels in love willing to do anything to keep the connection going and spending as much time with the loved read more…

What Is Love Bombing?

By Ann: Sounds good, but is it good and what is it? It is when someone excessively buys you gifts, gives you never ending compliments, always texting, invades your personal space with excessive attention claiming they are your soulmate.   This is a form of emotional abuse to manipulate a person into loving them. Once they read more…