After Forgiveness, What?

By Patricia: Forgiveness is an important part of life. Without forgiveness, we would live a life of bitterness, either unforgiven for something we did long ago, or wallowing in our anger about something someone did to us. There are many articles on this site about forgiveness, including the one I posted in July 2019, so read more…

Letting Go

By Patricia: There are times in our lives when it is time to “clean house”; times when the best thing we can do is let go of the things in our lives that no longer work for us, that are causing us unhappiness. The problem is, letting go can be very hard, in part because read more…

The Law Of Unintended Consequences

By Michael: Happiness cannot be attained by wanting to be happy – it must come as the unintended consequence of working for a goal greater than oneself.  As we head into the new year, a year of new promise and new opportunities, we ought to take a short pause to reflect on our actions, or read more…

Separation Is Not The End

By Sarah: When a couple has been together for a while and day to day reality has set in and become boring, it may be hard for each individual to know who they really are. Often times there are heaps of arguments and the relationship becomes totally unsettled and often a break up occurs. In read more…

Ready To Let Go

By Brenda: What are the things that we can really control in our life? When it comes to love, the answer is usually zero, zip or nada! True love and soulmate connections happen through mutual attraction, synchronicity and past life connections. A strong connection that is magnetic and all-encompassing is effortless and feels more like read more…

A Letter To Friends Telling You To Move On

By Annelize: Dear friend, I thought moving on was easy, but every time I find myself alone and drowning in my sorrows. I want you to feel and understand what I am going through, but you are on the outside, and you will never know what is happening inside my mind, my heart and my read more…

How Do You Earn Forgiveness?

By Patricia: I have spent many years working with recovering addicts. One of the hardest things for my clients was the concept of forgiveness. They did not know how to ask for forgiveness, how to grant forgiveness to others, and, most importantly, how to forgive themselves. Addicts always do harmful things to their families and read more…

The Dark Side Of Love

By Summer: Dear Women, When your partner constantly gaslight you to keep the upper hand in the relationship you should see it as a big red flag and not ignore this narcissistic behavior. Life is so precious, so short it can get taken away from you in a flash, why do woman still have to read more…