Why Do People Have Affairs ?

By Bill: We are all different, we think differently that is one of the many reasons I see there are millions of divorces, separations and people having affairs on their Partners. There are some out there that think that it is ok and all good to sleep around on their partners. Thus can lead to alcoholism, drug abuse and even more lead you to suicide in some sad cases.

That is Free Will,
I honestly see that if you have a Partner They are your Universe and Your Best Friend Yes?

“So why do people cheat or be unfaithful? In my years of guiding people from all walks of Life one thing is certain if you’re Not Happy in the relationship you are in you need to seek help to save it.

Ok let’s take a Look at some of the Reasons Why?

bill3 Wife or husband works long hours. He or She is not paying attention to their spouse, this could lead your partner feeling drained and tired or on that same note the wife or husband gets lonely for attention then they go out and meet someone where there is attraction, then lust can come into play. This is due to not listening to your partners needs they feel Loss of Love affection because of not spending quality time with your partner conversing is also a big part of the story too.

You do not have to feel alone there are many couples that feel the same way this is why separation is more than 97% into day’s world you do not have to be a number like the rest. I have worked with the Angelic realm for many years and I am here to help you it is so comforting to know that someone will listen and give you guidance just call me on life reader and then we can start to solve your problems.

Unless you have walked in another person’s shoes you do not know how the person feels if your husband /wife partner is cheating on you this can be a heart wrenching experience you think your friends can help they say leave him or her and this is not really what you want to hear you want to be heard and then you think what have I done wrong for this to happen, believe this when I say this it is not your fault these things sometimes just happen without any intention from your partner and other times it is deliberately done as well where you find out your partner has been having affairs for 10 years or less.

There is always a solution to what you are going through right now if this has happened to you in the past means that the next relationship you go into you will have trust issues unless you resolve the past hurts you will bring them into the future relationship and really do you want to do that?

I personally from a Man’s Point of view had a relationship were this happened, It is the most Heart wrenching feelings and you ask yourself will you ever trust again.

Your whole world collapses around you I see this can lead to making You a stronger Person, But not at this time though’ It takes Time to sort it out and work through it and get back on your Feet, and Mend the broken pieces of your heart and ready to face the world again. We all have friends that are having some sort of Problems in their relationship They went on line talked with psychics or counsellors and over time and Guidance they had forgiven the wrong doing of their Partners or have moved on, to happier relationships..
I encourage you if you are having any Problems or feel that there is a strain on Your Relationship.


Please don’t Hesitate to come on line and chat to me on Life Reader.

Love & Light cheers


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2 thoughts on “Why Do People Have Affairs ?

  1. Linda

    I have found out that my boyfriend of nearly 4 yrs is definetly cheating on me,,i have found out out on his facebook profile,he dnies all..says its spam..i have bookmaarked conversations between him and other women and also men,transvestites,my god im shocked!!!i havent confronted him or shown him concrete evidence i have..am confused,depressed,sickened by wat i discovered,..im 54yrs hes 60yrs this april..i dont know wat to do..?????

  2. Peter Keenan

    My name is Peter I’m 72 and my wife Giovana is 52. We have been together for 28 years and married for 21. We have a 20 year old son who lives at home and is doing very well having worked for the past 4 years nine days after leaving school (year12)as a trainee but now qualified Commercial Property Manager. I have worked in the same occupation and same company for in excess of 35 years.

    My wife was born in Italy and came to Perth when she was 8. I was born in India. We both came to Australia in 1974.

    I would have considered our marriage to be a happy one dedicated to giving our son the best we could afford. We over extended ourselves with a big mortgage in 2001 to accomodate my ageing father after my mother passed away.

    We struggled with our finances in order to send our son to a private school. It was not until 2011 that I realised I’d never pay off the $340,000 mortgage and decided to sell and downsize the house as well as the mortgage. While renting and building I suffered diverse back pains and was taken to hospital for a Laminectomy which went wrong after which I was told I’d be in a wheelchair fir the rest of my life. I came home from hospital and rehab 5 months later and a week after the builder handed over our home to my wife. We settled in and my employers offered me part time employment on half my salary.

    We would enjoy evening walks with our little dog and sometimes stop and look at the stars and it was all quite romantic. Then out of nowhere one day 23 April 2015 she calmly explained to me that men like me who had past their “use by” date should allow their wife to have affairs with other men to satisfy the physical needs that she had been deprived of since I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2006 while we co habit our home. I was very taken aback and explained I could not agree with her wishes and, a week later when I came home from work I found her wedding ring on the Kutcher Wirk bench with a post it note to say she had gone to stay with her sister who lived about half an hour away and 3 minutes from the home of her high school lover! I was batyrakky devastated and expressed my displeasure in no uncertain terms.

    About 3 weeks later the school at which she worked for 10 years which was 5 minutes away from our home decided to relocate her to a school over half an hour away North of us which meant a journey of over an hour from her susters place. In addition her sister commenced a relationship with a new man who spent weekends with her and everything started to change so my wife said she would come home and live in the spare room. I could not object as she owns 1/2 the house!

    We have tried to cohabit since early June 2015 but it has not been easy for me. I still have feelings for my wife but she has completely switched off to the extent that it was our 21st wedding anniversary yesterday (28 May) and she decided to go out to a school friends party, leaving me alone at home feeling quite depressed and wondering why I should continue to live.

    The cancer appeared to be in remission until about 4 weeks ago when tests revealed it had become aggravated with the stress at home most likley and I have undergone a bone scan last week. I have not been informed if the results yet.

    I have asked my wife to put the house in the market as she no longer has an interest and is always out, using it as a base as I pay the small mortgage, rates etc making it affordable and convenient for her. She refuses to sell. Neither of us has the money or borrowing capacity to buy the others half share out!

    I’m finding it very hard to go on and would appreciate any advice that can be sent to me by email. PLEASE ……..Peter


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